A Different Kind of Post Today

This is a departure from what I would usually post on this blog, but it is extremely important to me. 

On February 20th, Whitney Hardy, a beautiful, vibrant young woman who I've known for years and who recently became engaged to my cousin Dan, was critically injured in a car accident while out for a run in Boston. I received the news late that night in a text from my dad, and to say that I was in shock would be an understatement. The days since the accident have been profoundly difficult for my family, Whitney's family, and for all of the people whose lives she has touched. 

Whitney sustained a number of devastating injuries and requires constant care, but we are lucky enough to be able to check up on her daily through CaringBridge, a social networking site that allows friends and family to receive updates about their loved ones during any type of "health journey." Whitney's brother set up the page almost immediately, and what has resulted from it is nothing short of astounding. Besides being able to get up-to-date information about Whitney's condition, the site also allows people to sign a guest book and wish her well. The outpouring of love and support for Whitney has been unbelievable. In ten days, her site has received over 14,000 views, and the number will continue to grow as her hospital stay continues.

In addition to the CaringBridge page, one of Whitney's friends set up a GiveForward page to raise funds for her recovery, and I am brought to tears every time I check it. In just a few days, nearly $40,000 of their $50,000 goal has been reached, as hundreds of people share Whitney's story and generously donate to ensure that her recovery is as smooth and worry free as possible. I have never known a kindness this great; $40,000 is no small sum, and I watched the number climb from zero in the blink of an eye. I've seen people crowdsource for medical expenses before, but it was never something I thought I would experience firsthand. I can now say, with confidence, how thankful I am that these online resources are available not only to aid people in their recovery but also to create a community of loved ones who can be active participants in the process.

Whitney's recovery is more than just a hospital stay now; it is a campaign with its own mission statement, its own hashtag, and its own social media presence:

"As a means to support Whitney, Dan and their families, we are starting the #FightHardy movement and ask for YOU to join us. To date, there has been a tremendous outpouring of love and support for both families. The #FightHardy movement is about ensuring that the love and support of her friends, family and communities continue, unwavering. Above all else, the main objective of this effort is to help the Hardy and Stebbins families focus on what is most important, Whitney’s recovery."

Between the #FightHardy Facebook page and the hashtag on Twitter and Instagram, it is clear to see how many people are standing behind Whitney as she begins to heal.

The power of social media is something I have seen firsthand and it is something that I have learned about in school in various capacities, but its true impact did not occur to me until this beautiful and touching movement unfolded. 

Please send positive thoughts to my incredible cousin-to-be. 

#FightHardy